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Rights as a Submissive
I have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected. I have the right to adjust these limits at any time,
with notice to you. I have the right to expect You to push them, to force me to create new limits and boundaries.
I have the right to privacy. I expect You to be concerned about time we spend apart, but I expect you to understand that
I am a person, separate from You, and thusly having problems and situations in my life that I will not need your help with.
I have the right to expect You will respect me for my independence and not criticize me for it. I have the right to ask You
for help, should I need it. I have the right to be trusted, providing I have earned it, and I have the right to expect You
to believe I am an intelligent, caring and loyal person.
I have the right to ask things of You, and have You listen to my requests. I have the right to ask for Your attention,
without having to misbehave to get it. I have the right to ask You to contribute as much to this relationship as I do. As
long as my requests are submitted respectfully, I expect You to consider them as You would from any friend or colleague. I
have the right to question Your motives, should You deny my requests, as long as I do so with the proper respect.
I have the right to expect You to administer Your punishment with care and caution. I have the right to use my safe-words
at any point, should I feel them necessary. I have the right to get up and walk away from a scene if You have crossed the
line. I have the right to expect You to respect my decisions, and not think less of me, or abandon me for them.
I have the right to speak up if I feel Oour relationship is not giving me what I need. I have the right to tell You what
I need, in a respectful manner. I have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for doing so, and the right to expect
You to listen with an open mind. I have the right to walk away from the relationship if Wwe cannot come to a common ground
on these issues.
I have the right to expect tenderness, love and understanding after a scene is completed, should it be what I desire.
I have the right to ask You for that tenderness if I've had a bad day, or if I just feel the need for closeness. I understand
that there will be times when You and I will disagree about this - when You will want a scene, and I will not. I have the
right to call for a talk about this, and to expect You to listen to and consider my reasonings. I expect You to have the final
word, but I expect You to wholeheartedly consider my feelings, whatever they may happen to be.
I have the right to expect Oour relationship to progress, for trust to continually be renewed, for Oour souls to be as
close as our bodies are. I have the right to tell You if I need more from You, and I expect You to respect my decisions about
what I want and need. I expect You to want the relationship to progress, unless decided otherwise before hand. I expect You
to understand that deep trust often breeds love, and I expect You not to repel me if I tell You that I love You. For,my Master/Mistress,
I will love You, should Oour relationship move ahead, should Oour trust continue to grow. I have the right to expect You to
tell me, at any point, if You do not feel you can return those feelings, so that I may decide what I want and need. For it
is Your pleasure that adds to my own, makes it real. And mine, that adds to Yours.
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